Ben Kneubühler – EFT Trainer & Couples Therapist Switzerland
Psychologist, EFT Trainer and Couples Therapist – evidence-based, hands-on and passionate.

Welcome to the platform for EFT Couples Therapy in Switzerland. My name is Ben Kneubühler – Psychologist FSP, Clinical Sexologist iSi, EFT couples therapist and, since 2025, a certified Trainer for Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT).
As one of the first in Switzerland to have obtained this internationally recognized certification through the ICEEFT, I actively contribute to shaping EFT training in the German-speaking world – evidence-based, hands-on and with a deep understanding of emotional bonding.
My Approach
My therapeutic work is grounded in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), which was developed by the late Dr. Sue Johnson (d. 2024) and is now one of the most thoroughly researched approaches to couples therapy worldwide. EFT is based on attachment theory and addresses what truly matters: emotional safety between partners.
What convinces me about EFT: It provides therapists with a clear model that simultaneously leaves room for the uniqueness of each couple. It is not about communication rules or quick tips, but about understanding the emotional patterns behind the conflicts – and through that, creating a new, secure connection.
My Journey
with EFT
For many years, I have been working therapeutically with couples – particularly with people who struggle with sexuality, intimacy or attachment injuries in their relationships. EFT opened up a new depth in my work – and at the same time gave me a language to work mindfully with the pain and longing that couples experience.
After several years of intensive advanced training, I have been a certified EFT Trainer since 2025. In recent years, I have organized and facilitated several Externships and Core Skills trainings for the growing EFT community in German-speaking Switzerland. Passing on this knowledge is something I am truly passionate about – through continuing education programs, supervision and direct collaboration with dedicated professionals from therapy, counseling and education.
Hold Me Tight – Workshops for Couples
In addition to training professionals, I am passionate about working directly with couples. As a licensed workshop facilitator, I regularly conduct Hold Me Tight weekend workshops – in Zurich, Bern and Lucerne.
The Hold Me Tight program was developed by Sue Johnson and is based on her bestselling book of the same name. In an intensive weekend, couples learn to recognize and break free from their negative cycles – and find their way back to closeness, trust and the courage to truly connect with each other.
More information and registration:
Who Is This
Site For?
This platform is designed for:
- Therapists and counselors who want to train in EFT – from an introductory course to full certification
- Couples looking for evidence-based, emotionally focused couples therapy – visit our Find a Therapist page to get started
- Colleagues who want to learn about and connect with the EFT network in Switzerland
- Anyone interested in learning more about emotionally focused couples therapy – our book recommendations also offer a great starting point
Qualifications
- Psychotherapist FSP
- Certified EFT Couples Therapist (ICEEFT)
- Certified EFT Supervisor (ICEEFT)
- Certified EFT Trainer (ICEEFT)
- Clinical Sexologist iSi
- ADHD Specialist – Diagnostics and Group Therapy (adhsgruppe.ch)
- Director of the ISP Zürich
- Owner of Psychologe GmbH
- Licensed Hold Me Tight Workshop Facilitator
Brief Profile
Ben Kneubühler
Ben Kneubühler is a Swiss psychotherapist, certified EFT Trainer and couples therapist with a practice in Zurich. He is one of the first EFT Trainers in Switzerland certified by the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT).
Kneubühler leads the EFT training program in German-speaking Switzerland and offers Externships, Core Skills trainings, supervision and continuing education programs for professionals. Additionally, as a licensed workshop facilitator, he conducts Hold Me Tight couples seminars in Zurich, Bern and Lucerne.
In addition to his work as an EFT Trainer, Ben Kneubühler is the director of the ISP Zürich (Institute for Sex Education and Sex Therapy) and owner of Psychologe GmbH at Grossmünsterplatz in Zurich.
- Name: Ben Kneubühler, MSc
- Location: Grossmünsterplatz 6, 8001 Zürich
- Specializations: Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), Sex Therapy, ADHD Diagnostics and Treatment, Attachment Injuries
- Certifications: EFT Trainer, EFT Supervisor, EFT Couples Therapist (ICEEFT), Clinical Sexologist iSi, Psychotherapist FSP
- EFT Trainer since: 2025
- Websites: der-psychologe.ch · isp-zuerich.ch · holdmetight.ch · adhsgruppe.ch
Contact & Links
More about my therapeutic work:
der-psychologe.ch · isp-zuerich.ch
Hold Me Tight Workshops for Couples:
holdmetight.ch
ADHD Diagnostics and Group Therapy:
adhsgruppe.ch
EFT Training and Continuing Education:
View training programs · Next Externship
I look forward to connecting with you – whether in training, therapy or in exchange among colleagues.
Warmly,
Ben Kneubühler, MSc
Frequently Asked Questions about Ben Kneubühler
Who is Ben Kneubühler?
Ben Kneubühler is a Swiss Psychotherapist FSP, Clinical Sexologist and certified EFT Trainer with a practice in Zurich. He is one of the first ICEEFT-certified EFT Trainers in Switzerland and leads the EFT training program in German-speaking Switzerland.
Where does Ben Kneubühler practice?
Ben Kneubühler practices at Grossmünsterplatz 6 in 8001 Zurich. There he conducts couples therapy sessions and offers EFT training programs. The Hold Me Tight workshops take place in Zurich, Bern and Lucerne.
What EFT training programs does Ben Kneubühler offer?
Ben Kneubühler offers the complete EFT training program: EFT Externship (foundational training), Core Skills (advanced training), Supervision as well as various continuing education programs.
What is a Hold Me Tight Workshop?
A Hold Me Tight Workshop is an intensive weekend couples seminar based on the bestselling book by Dr. Sue Johnson. Ben Kneubühler is a licensed workshop facilitator and conducts the seminars in Zurich, Bern and Lucerne.
How can I contact Ben Kneubühler?
The easiest way to reach Ben Kneubühler is by email through his practice website der-psychologe.ch. For questions about EFT training, please write to mail@eft-paartherapie.ch or visit eft-paartherapie.ch. For Hold Me Tight workshops: holdmetight.ch.